Should I take a pic with dumbbells or barbell?. Ok, so I am fat. I’m posting on a singles website.
I want to show that I am not that out of shape – I thought a picture of me at the gym would be best.
I can use 100 lb dumbbells (maybe 110 for a quick pick) – or should I use barbells with maybe 275 on it?
Can a girl tell the difference?





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Douche. Are you serious? That is really corny.
A barbell says “meathead”. Dumbbells are good, but cable machines show sophistication!
Just keep your shirt on.
a pic like that would be a huge turn-off, IMHO. You would be better just posting a natural photograph of yourself in a normal environment. Clearly a photo of you at the gym is posed, and doesn’t “show” that you are not out of shape, it just makes you look like you are either trying too hard or very cheesy.
No! Photos where the guy is obviously. posing always made me giggle… like he takes himself too seriously. Just post some normal photos of you with friends or family (not keg party pics!) where you’re smiling and call it good.
clothing, activities, favorite meals.
A photo with clothes on would tell me more about you. At my age, if I saw someone “my age” in grunge-skateboard attire, let’s just say we likely wouldn’t be dating-compatible.
That along with your typical activities – walking, lifting, workout, biking and favorite mealss (eating with long-term health in mind) would say a lot.
I’m sure you’re aware that some “girls” are really not into skinny guys.